Don’t make this mistake while dealing with difficult people

Stay calm, set boundaries, and don’t take their behavior personally

We all get difficult people in our lives be it at workplace, in family, in neighbourhood, in our friend circle. A difficult person is one who is very rude to you or who doesn’t respect you.

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A difficult person will not listen to you, will never respect you, will never be happy with you no matter what you do for them, will show passive aggressive behaviour. Here is the most important mistake that people do while dealing with difficult person.

Expecting that a difficult person would be nice to them or do good to them-

If you do something for a difficult person, no matter how much efforts you put in they will never be satisfied. Rather than trying to please such people, its better that we focus on ourself and do things which we like instead of pleasing them. Why you need to seek validation from such people? that difficult person will never be good to you ever, so stop trying to please them.

But the question here arises is why do we seek validation from difficult people. It’s because of childhood trauma, a difficult parent you dealt with be it your mom or dad or even both parents and it’s a familiar domain for you to be in. All you have…