굿맨 시스템 배팅；온라인바카라 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //cdn-images-1.batxh.com/fit/c/150/150/1*0S5S-8iMQ8iDcMEAEg4Csw.jpeg 바카라게임사이트；온라인카지노, 카지노사이트 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 Medium Fri, 25 Oct 2024 03:38:38 GMT 카지노 딜러 하는 일 Archives；카지노사이트킴 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/how-to-be-smart-and-stop-contacting-your-man-so-much-6c4dc550d5a3?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/6c4dc550d5a3 Sat, 31 Aug 2024 01:17:41 GMT 2024-08-31T01:17:41.092Z Love Doesn’t Mean Obsession: Why Women Need Their Own Space
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In real life, what kind of woman makes a man remember her forever? Some people might say it’s a woman who’s pretty, while others might say it’s a woman with brains. But in reality, aside from those two things, what really attracts a man is a woman’s ability to control herself.For a woman in real life, learning to control how often she contacts a man is a smart way to be in a relationship.Sarah’s been married for seven years. Her parents didn’t like her husband at first.He didn’t have money, a car, or a house, so her parents didn’t like him.Maybe she was blinded by love, but Sarah still chose to marry him.After getting married, Sarah finally understood everything her parents had said to her.After getting married, Sarah decided to stay home to take care of their kids.But that didn’t make her life better. It actually made things worse.Sarah was exhausted taking care of the kids by herself.She thought her husband would understand, but every day she heard him complain and be unsupportive.Sarah cried about it a lot in secret.Her husband didn’t understand and didn’t care.Now Sarah finally understands how important marriage is for a woman.Seven years of her youth were wasted. Sarah says, “If I could choose again, I would never marry this man. I don’t want to suffer anymore.”

A Man’s Promises Don’t Last Long

Joy and pain in love alternate. — Lord ByronLily and her husband have been married for three years.Before they got married, their relationship was stable.So after less than a year of dating, Lily decided to get married.Lily was pretty happy while they were dating, because her husband made her a lot of promises.Lily thought she would be happy forever.But after they got married, her husband’s attitude towards her completely changed.Before they were married, her husband did whatever Lily wanted, but after they got married, he complained and blamed Lily for everything.At first, Lily accepted it, but the longer it went on, the more she couldn’t stand his attitude.They fought about it more than once. That’s when Lily realized that a man’s promises are never reliable.A man’s promises don’t last long, so you can’t rely on them.In real life, a lot of women become insecure when they fall in love. They even get tricked by a man’s sweet talk. But when a woman faces love, she needs to be more rational. No man will love you unconditionally forever. So whenever a man says sweet things to you, you need to think carefully.

Don’t Cling to a Man Who Doesn’t Love You

Some losses are inevitable, some destinies are never meant to be, you can love someone without possessing them, and if you possess someone, you must love them well. — PlatoWhen a man doesn’t love you, he’s always busy.I’ve seen a lot of couples in love who argue about their relationship.When a man truly loves you, he’s willing to spend time with you. But if he doesn’t love you, being busy is his excuse.If a man always tells you he’s busy after he gets you, and he even avoids you on purpose, it means he doesn’t love you deeply. He just wants you, and he doesn’t want to spend too much time on you. So if a man always tells you he doesn’t have time,it means he doesn’t want to be around you anymore. When you face this kind of man, you need to cut your losses.Because men are more realistic in love than women. When they don’t love you, their love can disappear at any time.In real life, women shouldn’t cling to a man too much. If a man loves you, he’ll love you naturally. If he doesn’t love you, it won’t matter how much you beg.A lot of women put all their hope in a man once they fall in love. But they don’t realize that this is the dumbest thing to do. When you rely too much on a man, he won’t care about you.Love isn’t about clinging. As a woman, you need to have your own space. You can love a man, but you can’t sacrifice yourself for him.Women shouldn’t make a man their whole life. Learn to control how often you contact a man. It will often make him love you more. If you lose your mind because you love a man too much, he won’t love you in the end.I hope every woman can focus on herself first, and then love someone. Only when you become a better person can you earn a man’s respect.In real life, smart women never contact a man first. Because when they face love, they know how to cut their losses.]]> 카지노MK；토토사이트 추천 순위와 사설토토 검증 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/when-you-reach-middle-age-the-woman-who-truly-loves-you-is-actually-only-this-kind-7dfc68d7bb20?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/7dfc68d7bb20 Sat, 17 Aug 2024 07:15:01 GMT 2024-08-17T07:15:01.429Z Beyond Beauty: Seeking a Partner Who Understands and Supports
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Gorky said:
“If you leave people with beautiful things, fresh flowers, and good memories of you throughout your life, your life will be easy and happy. You’ll feel that everyone needs you, and this feeling will make you a rich-spirited person. You should know that giving is more joyful than taking.”
When you reach middle age, many things will change. Perhaps we were especially fond of someone when we were young, but that feeling disappears as we grow older.Some men may have liked those cute and shy girls when they were young, enjoying the attention they received from them. However, when a man reaches middle age, the woman who truly loves him will undergo a change.A woman who can take care of a man in daily life is the one who truly loves him.

Middle-Aged Men Have a Lot of Pressure

When a man reaches middle age, his ideal love may not be so superficial anymore. Many men won’t spend their whole lives with someone just because of their beauty, even if they’re infatuated. But if they meet a woman who can walk with them for life, someone who understands men’s difficulties and can help them resolve their worries, they’ll hold onto her tightly.Many men are reckless and have many romantic relationships, but in the end, they choose only one woman to be with because they’ve experienced the superficiality of their past relationships. Now, this woman has reached the depths of their heart.
Yu Dafu said:
“When I reached middle age, I discovered I had a lot of pressure, but I didn’t dare to give up because I had no one behind me.”
Everyone has to bear certain pressures, whether they’re ordinary people or high-ranking officials. Each person has things they want to do, and when facing these facts, they’ll think about having someone by their side. If you’re alone, or if there’s someone in front of you but they don’t care about your feelings, you’ll eventually feel they’re heartless and distant.A woman who can understand a man’s pressure will make him feel like she’s as tolerant as a mother.In fact, men also have a maternal complex, whether they’re Chinese or foreign artists. When painting, they can express their maternal complex.This shows that men’s emotions have existed since ancient times, so women must understand men’s pressures and not add to their burdens.If a woman constantly blames her man for not working hard enough or not being successful, she’ll eventually make him feel hurt and may even lead to his collapse.

Love Becomes Familial, and That’s When It Becomes More Solid

When love becomes familial, that’s when it becomes more solid.As time passes, love will eventually fade, and we’ll discover that love is like what Romain Rolland said: “Love is not worth preserving; only familial love can be preserved because it can last a lifetime. Even if we part ways with our loved one, the familial bond remains unbroken.”You should know that if your love doesn’t become familial, it’s just a romantic fantasy, and even if you can maintain the romance for a while, it’s still empty because your emotions haven’t transformed into familial love. When you don’t feel anything for each other, you might choose to exit the relationship.When love becomes familial, people will struggle because everyone will pursue romance and beauty but not dare to face the mundane. However, if love doesn’t become familial, the relationship will worsen, and the distance between the two will grow.The women who can turn love into familial love in daily life will eventually discover that they’ve gained a lot. Although they may lack the romance of their youth, what they’ve gained is far more than what they currently have.When a man treats a woman like his family, it means he’s decided to love her for life. This woman is the one men should pursue, and she’ll stand by the man’s side, silently supporting him, even if she doesn’t do anything.

A Gentle and Caring Woman Can Win a Man’s Heart

A woman who is gentle and caring can win a man’s heart.At first, a man may like a woman’s appearance, but as time passes, he’ll realize that looks aren’t everything. We may think someone is beautiful at first, but eventually, we’ll feel that they’re not that attractive after all.This is human nature, and it’s called aesthetic fatigue. When our sense of beauty becomes tired, we’ll feel that even a beautiful woman isn’t that attractive anymore.Moreover, everyone will grow old, and when a woman grows older, her beauty will no longer be an advantage. If you want to compete with a younger woman, you might fail.So, a gentle and caring woman will win a man’s heart. A man who has reached middle age has experienced many storms, knows the difficulties of life, and knows how hard it is to find a woman who can work together with him. Except for a few heartless men, most men are kind and will care deeply about their women.When you reach middle age, the woman who truly loves you is the one who understands how to take care of you, the one who knows how to live life.In fact, beauty is only superficial; we may be attracted to someone because of their beauty, but if we can’t reach their heart, the relationship will eventually fail.As the saying goes: “Love starts with appearance, gets stuck on talent, and stays with character.” You should always reach into the heart, and that’s when the emotions become more solid.]]> 보증 카지노 벳스토어 이벤트와 가입 정보 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/a-man-who-secretly-loves-you-will-do-these-silly-things-dont-be-clueless-31f8a0ad553d?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/31f8a0ad553d Mon, 15 Jul 2024 07:17:07 GMT 2024-07-15T07:17:07.363Z
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Lu Sihao said: “Secret love gives people a superpower to find them (her) in a crowd, but it doesn’t give people a superpower to make them (her) look at you in a crowd.”Zhang Xiaoxian said: “The farthest distance in the world is not the ends of the earth, nor is it on opposite sides of the world. It’s when I’m standing right in front of you, and you don’t know I love you.”Secret love is a romantic thing, but it’s more painful than romantic. Many times, you can always see the person you like in a crowd, but even if they pass you by, they won’t notice you.This is secret love. Once you’re caught in it, you can’t pull yourself out. You’ll spend all day fantasizing about what life would be like with them. When you see them, you’re speechless. When you don’t, you’re crazy for them.You know, secretly liking someone isn’t just a girl thing. When a guy secretly loves a girl to the extreme, he’ll be silly and cute, and he’ll do some stupid things for you. At this point, don’t play dumb. If you have feelings for him, grab the opportunity.

He’s Full of Curiosity, Always Wanting to Know More About You, Secretly Finding Out Your Likes

When a man secretly loves you, he’ll try every way he can to get to know you. From your mouth, from your friends, from observing your daily life… everything will become a way for him to get to know you.I have a friend, Sarah, who had a guy in the same school secretly loving her for a while. He couldn’t find a way to get closer to her. Later, he came to me. I saw that he was sincere, so I casually mentioned that Sarah loves playing badminton. I wouldn’t believe what happened next.The guy was skinny and looked like he wasn’t good at sports. But during that time, I kept seeing him practicing alone on the court. To others, his movements were a little funny, but to me, he really liked Sarah. He was willing to practice even though he didn’t know if he’d ever use it.That’s how secret love is. Even if you don’t know what the future holds, you still want to put your whole heart into it. You’re willing to give, even if the other person doesn’t know.

He Wants to Share Everything About Himself With You, Even Tiny Things That Don’t Matter

Someone who secretly loves you will always worry that they’re not giving you enough. They want to get closer to you and even wish they could become the wind, always around you, knowing what you’re doing at every moment.Many times, it’s not that we don’t have anyone who loves us, but that we often ignore the things we get easily.When someone likes you, they want to know you and they want you to know them better. So, whenever they get the chance, they’ll tell you all about themselves.Even if they see a leaf falling in front of them on the road, they want to share it with you. They can’t get enough of it.If you really have a guy like this in your life, he must secretly love you to the extreme to do things that seem silly to others. At this point, don’t be clueless anymore. Be clear about your feelings. Be good to him and be good to yourself.

He’ll Always Be Paying Attention to You, Sometimes Even Staring at You, Unable to Look Away

Eyes are the window to the soul. They never lie. A man who secretly loves you will show how much he likes you through his eyes.When you’re reading in the library, you may never notice that there’s a burning gaze from afar watching you silently. They just stare, as if they’ve forgotten everything around them.A man who secretly loves you will have many strange coincidences with you. You’re in the cafeteria, and he’ll soon be there too. You’re on a bench, and he’ll walk by. You’re running, and he’ll be running silently beside you.Whenever you’re together, his eyes will be fixed on you. He’ll etch every smile and frown of yours into his memory.There aren’t that many coincidences in the world. These seemingly coincidental encounters are actually one side silently giving, creating opportunities for you to meet. A person’s emotions in their eyes can never be hidden. Only when they look at someone they deeply love will their eyes be so devoted.

He Likes to Tease You, With a Kind of “I Won’t Stop Until I Make You Cry” Attitude

This isn’t the same type of guy as the one mentioned above. This one is a bit bad, but in a lovable way. He likes to banter with you, making you angry. But being with him, you’ll never lack fun in your life.When a man secretly loves you to the extreme, he’ll find everything you do cute, proving the saying: “Love is blind.” In his eyes, you’re the embodiment of cuteness.We all can’t help but want to tease cute things. This is a law that even guys with their masculine spirit can’t escape.But he won’t really bicker with you because he’s afraid of hurting you. He does this to get your attention. The point is, you’ll have a lot of fun together.It’s not easy to have a sincere relationship in the vast sea of people. If a man is willing to do these silly things for you, it means he secretly loves you to the extreme. Cherish him.]]> 에볼루션 드래곤 타이거(용호) 길라잡이；온라인바카라 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/the-monk-said-three-hurdles-in-marriage-overcoming-them-leads-to-a-lifetime-together-8c33687e17e1?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/8c33687e17e1 Sun, 14 Jul 2024 07:02:28 GMT 2024-07-14T07:02:28.116Z
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In the long river of life, we always stop and start, leaving behind footprints, deep and shallow, as we admire the scenery along the way. And fate will gently arrive, when we’re enjoying the beauty, without realizing it.The depth of fate tells us if we can stay together for life, growing old together. It’s connected to love’s rise and fall, and is controlled and influenced by many things.When fate arrives, even if we’re separated by a thousand mountains and rivers, I will be at the other side, watching the flowers bloom, waiting for you to return. When fate ends, even if we’re on the same boat, the ship will eventually reach the shore, and we’ll be separated.Marriage is the result of fate in love, it’s also the biggest test of love when fate is fulfilled.During the test, couples will face many difficulties, they need to work together, to overcome the challenges. An old monk once said: there are three hurdles in marriage, overcome them, and you’ll grow old together. Remember these words, they’ll benefit you for life.

From Love to Marriage

Love and marriage, even though they’re both the results of fate, are still fundamentally different. Love doesn’t need to take on family responsibilities, there’s no pressure from life, it’s just between you and me. Marriage is about two families, mine and yours, you need to take on the responsibility of raising your family in the process of maintaining the marriage.When two lovers, full of passion, enter the wedding hall, they’ll face the first challenge of marriage: the adjustment period. Even though love gave them a chance to adjust in the beginning, the adjustment period in marriage will be much harder.After marriage, two people live together, except for work, they’re always together. Their habits will be different at the beginning, they’ll feel uncomfortable.My older cousin got married last National Day, but it’s been a while since they got married. But she still complains to me about how different their habits are. Her husband doesn’t like staying up late, he likes to snore while he sleeps, he doesn’t procrastinate. My cousin is a typical night owl, she can’t have any noise around her when she sleeps, she always likes to sleep in.Some of their habits are completely different. These habits only show up after marriage, so we can only adjust slowly after marriage.Later, I never heard my cousin complain about her husband’s snoring again. Her husband said that he’s been changing a little bit, so that my cousin can sleep well. They both adjusted to each other’s sleep schedules, her husband often waits for my cousin to fall asleep before he goes to sleep, giving her enough sleep time.They’re very happy now. They’ve safely crossed the first hurdle of marriage. Marriage is like a cup of bitter tea, it’s bitter at first, but after you taste it for a while, it’ll become sweet, and the aroma will spread.

From Marriage to Having Children

After the adjustment period of marriage, we start a seemingly happy life in the eyes of others, but we don’t know that there are bigger hurdles that we need to work together to overcome.Many young couples around me planned to have children within one or two years of marriage, most of them were urged by their families and influenced by societal opinions.When the plan to have children is put on the agenda, many conflicts will follow. For example, when the woman gets pregnant, she needs to hand over her work, her life changes, and the man needs to take on more responsibility for the family, raising his wife and children.After the child is born, the attention of the whole family will be focused on the child, he/she is the apple of everyone’s eye. At this time, a problem will arise: the woman is “out of favor.”It’s said that when a wife is pregnant, she’s like a princess, above everyone else, but after she gives birth, she becomes a nanny, taking care of the child’s food and daily life. This sudden psychological gap not only affects the wife’s mental state, but also affects both spouses.The most important thing that triggers conflicts is the chemical agent of long-term life: the shortcomings of the other party are clear to each other. They argue every three days, and bicker every two days. Small arguments can promote the relationship between couples, but over time, no one knows when an argument will be the last straw that breaks the camel’s back.So during this period, mutual understanding is very important. Get through the wife’s confinement period, the woman needs to be confident that she’s always a princess in her husband’s eyes, the man needs to have the courage and responsibility to take care of the family, no one is neglected. Only then can you overcome the second hurdle in marriage.

From Youth to Middle Age

Even if you were wild and unrestrained when you were young, after you have a family and children, you’ll become more reserved. The beauty of your face will fade with time, and the passage of time will leave marks of life on your face.By middle age, you’ve lived half your life, you have children, and your work and family are happy. At this time, you also face the third hurdle in marriage: the period of dullness.Middle-aged couples will no longer focus on their lives and love lives, because they have the burden of life to bear. The elderly care of both parents, the education and marriage of their children, and a series of daily life issues, they don’t have time to pay much attention to their marital life. This is also the time when problems are most likely to arise.It’s said that marriage has a “seven-year itch,” the reason is the dullness of the relationship. From the passionate and fiery love at the beginning, to the current blandness, it causes the “itch.”How many cases of extramarital affairs are there in the world, they’re all caused by their inability to control their strong inner desires, eventually breaking the shackles of their marriage, seeking freedom, but this freedom is wrong.In the most dull time of marriage, the most important thing is to be patient, to hold on to this hard-earned fate, to learn to dance with chains, to savor the tea you brewed in marriage, maybe you’ll have a different experience.Fate is deep or shallow, love comes and goes, but it can’t resist the word “love.” Marriage is a haven for love, and the longevity of love in marriage requires good management of the marriage. When couples overcome these three hurdles, believe that you will grow old together.]]> 카지노사이트 랭크카지노；바카라사이트；카지노사이트킴 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/people-who-post-petty-things-on-social-media-are-the-most-unsuccessful-b47ae1801b6f?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/b47ae1801b6f Sat, 13 Jul 2024 08:02:17 GMT 2024-07-13T08:02:17.970Z
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The internet is everywhere now, and there are tons of social media apps.Everyone wants to share their lives on social media, like Facebook, even posting multiple times a day. It doesn’t matter if it’s morning, noon, or night, at work or shopping. They want to tell everyone about everything that happens in their day.What’s even worse is that when something bad happens, they don’t try to fix it. Instead, they post about it on social media first.It’s true that sharing your life can help you express your feelings and thoughts. You have the freedom to do that.But posting on social media too often, especially about petty things, makes you look bad in your friends’ eyes. It also affects their lives. So, don’t post on social media all the time. Keep some mystery about yourself. Don’t be unsuccessful.

Understand That Not Everyone Cares About Everything

We post on social media to share our lives and show off our experiences. But we need to understand that not everyone cares about everything we share.I have a friend who posts on Facebook about everything, from his morning commute to his lunch and even watching TV at night.He posts a bunch of stuff every day, like “Eating lunch…” or “Watching TV…”. These posts are pointless. After a while, a lot of his friends blocked him.Everyone has their own lives. Even though we’re all different, we don’t all care about the same things. Who cares about what you’re eating or watching on TV?People who post like this might just be lonely and want attention. So, they post on social media all the time, but it backfires.Remember that social media is a place to show off your personality. It’s not a place to expose your private life. We don’t need to share everything we do. We lose our value in our friends’ eyes if we do that. It makes us look unsuccessful.

Have Your Own Life and Be More Thoughtful

We all live our own lives. The internet is what connects us all the time.Some people like to post where they are, like if they’re on vacation. People who do this aren’t very thoughtful and are too naive.You should always be careful. Posting your location on social media could put you in danger. Someone could take advantage of you while you’re away. They could even follow you to your vacation spot and try to do something bad.People who are good at living their lives don’t share all their private information in public. They know that people can be unpredictable. You never know when a social media post will come back to bite you.

Grow Up and Be More Mature

Only naive children share everything about themselves. They don’t know the difference between good and bad people.We think people who post on social media a lot are bored. They have nothing better to do, so they post on social media to entertain themselves.Mature people don’t spend all day posting on social media. They don’t want to annoy people with their constant posts.They’d rather spend their time doing something more meaningful, like reading a book, watching a movie, listening to music, or even planning their future.Not everything is worth bragging about on social media. What we should really brag about is our maturity and our value.

Complaining About Small Things Is Not Mature

Life is all about the little things, like cooking, eating, and cleaning. People who complain about small things on social media aren’t mature.Everyone has their own selfish side and dark side. When you complain about something insignificant on social media, like “Someone bumped into me today, they totally did it on purpose,” it’s not cool.These sneaky posts might make you feel better, like everyone knows that person is bad. But remember that while everyone knows that person is bad, they also see how you are.You’re just secretly posting mean things on social media. That’s not mature at all.

Be Mature and Know Your Limits

Mature people know when to share things and when not to.They don’t talk about everything. They treat the challenges and struggles they face in life as lessons and experiences, not things to complain about.Be brave and face every challenge life throws at you. Accept every blow fate gives you. This will make you stronger.Life is yours. Don’t post about every little thing on social media. People who do that are unsuccessful.

You Already Have the Attention You Want

You know that the attention you get from posting on social media is already yours. People who care about you will care about you even if you never post anything. People who don’t like you won’t suddenly like you because of one post.Posting about small things on social media only shows everyone how boring and miserable your life is. No one will feel sorry for you, and no one will understand what you’re going through.Instead of wasting time posting on social media, do something meaningful. Be successful because of your own skills.]]> 바카라 게임；바카라 추천；바카라 게임 사이트 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/three-things-that-are-hardest-to-hide-when-youve-had-a-relationship-with-the-opposite-sex-8aa834e99af9?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/8aa834e99af9 Fri, 12 Jul 2024 07:06:01 GMT 2024-07-12T07:06:01.921Z Three Things That Are Hardest to Hide When You’ve Had a Relationship with the Opposite Sex, and How to Handle Them Best
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A long-lasting and beautiful love is like a marriage, requiring careful nurturing and can’t be achieved overnight. Many people think that even the most passionate feelings will change if not nurtured.Before committing to a relationship, many people prefer to enjoy the ambiguity, rather than breaking the fragile “window” of uncertainty. In the end, two people who like each other will accompany each other as close friends, making many people envious.However, any relationship needs a balance point, especially between men and women. Once the boundary is crossed, the relationship will undergo a fundamental change.In reality, those who firmly believe in pure friendships between men and women often can’t withstand repeated scrutiny. Love is a process of mutual affection and gradually develops into possessiveness.Maintaining a friendship between men and women is just a way to avoid facing one’s true feelings. The more you like someone, the more cautious you’ll be. If you can’t make a commitment, it’s better to pretend ignorance.Even if you see the other person getting married and having kids, it doesn’t mean you don’t love them; you just think they can make each other happier. However, if men and women don’t maintain a good distance in their relationship, they’ll easily cross the boundary.As time passes, the emotions between men and women will deepen, and they’ll become more dependent on each other. Therefore, it’s easy to cross the boundary in such situations.Men and women can have pure friendships, but only if they maintain a certain distance. In reality, few people can achieve this, and most use the excuse of friendship to satisfy their own desires.Once the boundary is crossed, it’s hard to return to a normal friendship. If both parties are single, they might become a couple. Otherwise, most people won’t have a good ending, because once you’ve had a relationship, these three points are hardest to hide, and it’s best to handle them this way.

Control the Strong Possessiveness Between Each Other

The biggest difference between friendship and love is that friendship can have multiple partners, while love is unique and irreplaceable. When two people are in a close friend relationship, they’ve already surpassed ordinary friendship but haven’t reached the level of love.At this stage, they’re in a ambiguous state, which can satisfy each other’s emotional needs, making them feel attracted to each other. Moreover, the other person can also satisfy their emotional needs without affecting their daily life.Once men and women have had a relationship, they won’t be satisfied with just spiritual communication or dependence. Mutual affection will naturally lead to possessiveness.During the close friend stage, they only have spiritual dependence, and their bodies are free to do as they please.However, once they’ve had a relationship, whether they admit it or not, a fundamental change has occurred in their minds, making them want to get more from each other.When they see their partner getting too close to someone else, strong possessiveness will emerge, feeling that their things are being taken away, and anger will naturally arise. It’s essential to control the strong possessiveness between each other at this stage.

Be as Natural as Possible in Your Interactions

The value of friendship lies in not only having someone who understands your difficulties but also being able to interact without feeling tired. For most people, having a friend who doesn’t make them feel tired and can be trusted is exceptionally precious.During the close friend stage, even between men and women, they can open up their hearts without reserve. It’s not an exaggeration to say that they’re the people who understand each other the most, making their relationship more relaxed and comfortable, like a romantic relationship.A good romantic relationship must have some reserve to maintain its attraction in the long run. Therefore, when not in a romantic relationship, one shouldn’t have strong curiosity about the other person or have simple dependence.Once men and women have had a relationship, they’ll easily cross the boundary, exposing their true selves. As a result, it’s hard for them to return to their previous interaction mode, and they’ll feel awkward.If they don’t want this feeling to persist, it’ll create strong psychological pressure on each other. Therefore, it’s crucial to be as natural as possible in their interactions after having a relationship.

Honestly Face Your Other Half

For most married or dating couples, their partner is chosen because they’re suitable for each other. However, men and women become close friends because they can resonate with each other spiritually.So, even if they have a partner, they’ll choose to maintain contact with their close friend, and many will justify their choice: Can’t I have my own social circle?In reality, those who say this are just trying to justify themselves. Their partner is not concerned about their friend’s identity but about the lack of boundaries in their interaction, which might make them unknowingly neglect their partner.This behavior undoubtedly puts the close friend in a more important position than their partner. I believe no woman can accept being treated like this by her partner.When men and women have had a relationship, they’ll naturally become more concerned and anxious about each other. Because a fundamental change has occurred in their hearts, making them more determined to get more from each other.As a result, their possessiveness will increase, and every move will affect each other’s hearts. At this stage, their thoughts have already shifted to their close friend, naturally neglecting their partner. Therefore, they can’t honestly face their partner because they’ve already betrayed them.A close friend is hard to find, but if you know the other person likes you, or you like them, yet still pretend to be just friends without keeping a distance, you’ll only end up hurting each other and losing out in the end, especially if you already have a partner.Any relationship can only be maintained in the long run if you keep a distance, especially between men and women, who are more sensitive to boundaries.So, don’t be foolish and think that you can still act like nothing happened after having a relationship with the opposite sex. There will always be consequences, and the above three points are impossible to hide. Don’t deceive yourself!]]> 한국 온라인 카지노사이트 추천；안전한 바카라사이트 순위 정보 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/what-gives-them-the-courage-to-cheat-585876eb59e0?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/585876eb59e0 Thu, 11 Jul 2024 08:02:42 GMT 2024-07-11T08:02:42.452Z
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Although many people cheat, few dare to do it openly. After all, cheating isn’t something to be proud of. In fact, cheaters know it’ll bring them negative consequences. So, why do so many people still choose to cheat?Generally speaking, in an unequal marriage where one partner dominates, the stronger one is more likely to cheat.We’ve always emphasized that a balanced marriage is a game of equals; however, in reality, most marriages aren’t like that. Instead, they’re unequal, with one person always in control. This person calls the shots and makes all the decisions, big or small. If they get the chance, they’re more likely to cheat.

They’ve Gotten Used to Being in Control.

So, whether it’s an affair or a marriage, they’re extremely confident, thinking they can control everything. If their partner finds out, no big deal; they can just talk their way out of it. What’s the worst that could happen? This mental superiority is what makes them fearless about cheating, and it comes from years of being in a dominant role.On the other hand, the weaker partner will still adopt a submissive attitude when dealing with their partner’s infidelity. For example, they’ll try to reason with them, hoping they’ll realize their mistake and come back or show remorse. When facing their partner’s betrayal, they’ll often take a lowly stance, not even daring to say a word, and instead beg their partner not to leave them…This attitude won’t make the cheater feel guilty or sympathetic; instead, it’ll make them even more fearless, disgusted, and contemptuous of you. The more submissive you are, the more arrogant they’ll become, and the less they’ll care about you. When they see how weak you are, they won’t feel sorry for you; they’ll think you’re pathetic and wonder what you can do to them!As a result, cheating will become even more rampant and unscrupulous.

In an Unequal Marriage, the Stronger Partner Often Looks Down on the Weaker One.

This isn’t because the weaker partner is really that bad; it’s just that the stronger partner has a fixed mindset, always thinking they’re not good enough. Now, many women who cheat are strong and successful, not relying on men, and they contribute more to the family’s finances and household chores. At this point, they often look down on their husbands, and if they meet someone “better” than their husband, they’re more likely to cheat. Their obvious psychological structure is: I have someone better than my husband who likes me, so even if we divorce, I’m not afraid. I don’t need you anyway.Men who cheat also have a similar psychology, looking down on their original partner being a major reason.The term “yellow-faced wife” is just a euphemism, implying not only that a woman has lost her looks but also that she’s lost her charm and can’t attract her man anymore. This term itself has a derogatory connotation.It’s precisely because they look down on their partner that they won’t feel sorry if they lose them.If you’re the one who’s been betrayed, understanding these principles means you don’t need to be pitiful or submissive when you’re betrayed. Instead, you should wake up, take control of your time, and focus on loving yourself, building your “capital,” and turning the tables on this unequal relationship. Prove yourself.When you’re strong enough, the dominant person in the relationship will become you. Then, they’ll be in your shoes, and they’ll have to watch their step around you, not daring to upset you, let alone cheat. If you think this person is unworthy of you, you can kick them to the curb in an instant.]]> 다이사이；카지노사이트, 카지노, 바카라사이트 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/the-more-they-look-down-on-you-the-more-they-pretend-to-care-just-cut-them-off-67b114865f0f?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/67b114865f0f Wed, 10 Jul 2024 07:36:55 GMT 2024-07-10T07:36:55.139Z
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In life, we’ll encounter various relationships, including family, friends, teachers, and romantic partners. Among these, family is the one we can’t choose.Good family relationships can make our lives happier and more meaningful. However, some family relationships seem close but are actually distant, bringing us trouble and making us want to cut ties.People are selfish, and even family members with blood ties may not always be good to us or genuinely happy for our success or sad for our failure.Some family members are like smiling tigers, pretending to be friendly and saying nice things to our faces, but behind our backs, they’re looking down on us or gossiping about us to others.When we encounter such situations, some people might choose to confront them directly, which can ultimately damage the relationship.Actually, it’s not that complicated. We can just ignore them and not let them affect our self-image, which is not worth it.When we meet those who pretend to care about us but actually look down on us, it’s better to just cut them off and not bother with them anymore. We can just be clear about it in our hearts.Lin Chen used to run a small business, earning a modest income, but getting by.Later, when he wanted to expand his business, he thought of borrowing some money from his uncle. However, his uncle kept saying there was no problem, but never lent him the money, making excuses about not having the money back yet.Later, Lin Chen found out from other relatives that his uncle had already received the money, but when he asked his uncle again, his uncle said he was short on cash and would help him think of other ways.From others’ mouths, Lin Chen realized that his uncle had been lying and didn’t want to lend him the money, thinking his small business wouldn’t make much money and that he wouldn’t be able to pay him back.After that, Lin Chen never bothered with his uncle again, even when his uncle asked him about it later.For those family members who look down on us, it’s best to just stay away from them.In family relationships, many people are like this, wanting to save face and also wanting to get benefits.They don’t want to help us, look down on us, and are afraid of losing face, fearing that others will gossip about them. They’ll say nice things to our faces, like “Come to me if you need help,” but when we really need help, they’ll start making excuses.Many times, because of family relationships, we have to be cautious in our words and actions, considering both sides’ faces, and many things can’t be said directly.When we meet, we’ll exchange polite greetings, and when we part ways, we’ll think to ourselves, “If they weren’t family, I wouldn’t bother with them.”There are such people in our families, and it’s really frustrating. We often have to pretend to smile, ask about their well-being, and be fake.It’s better to just stay away from them and not bother with them anymore.Cheng Xue’s family is like this too. Her parents’ relatives are mostly well-off, but their family’s condition is average. Her older brother is 30 now, but because they can’t afford to buy a house, his girlfriend’s family doesn’t agree to their marriage.Those relatives heard about their situation and would ask her brother when he’s getting married, saying they’ll come to the wedding. Cheng Xue knew that those relatives knew their situation and her brother’s difficulties, but they only said they’ll come to the wedding and didn’t mention his troubles.Of course, her family didn’t ask for help from those relatives despite their financial difficulties.Later, when Cheng Xue’s brother’s career took off, and he was able to buy a house, their family’s condition improved significantly.When their family’s condition improved, those relatives started to come around again. Every time they heard that relatives were coming, Cheng Xue’s family would say they’re going to the city for the holidays or traveling, avoiding those fake relatives.You didn’t care about me when I was struggling, and now that my condition has improved, I don’t need your concern anymore.Many people will encounter such situations, where when they’re struggling financially, even if they invite relatives to visit, the others will only say they’ll come when they’re free, but they’ll never be free.When our condition improves, others will start to suck up to us, saying they want to visit us. At that time, we’ll become the ones who start to refuse.In family relationships, there’s originally a certain blood tie, which shouldn’t be like friends who can talk about anything, nor should it be like enemies who can’t get along.However, some relatives will pretend to care about us, saying nice things about us, but behind our backs, they’ll start to mock us and look down on us.When we encounter such relatives, I just want to say that I don’t need their fake concern or care.Many times, those who pretend to have a family relationship are not even as good as ordinary friends.Especially when it comes to matters involving benefits, as long as their condition is better than ours, they’ll have an unknown sense of superiority, looking down on us.When making friends, we should make friends who are genuinely good to us. Even if it’s a family relationship, if it’s too fake, there’s no need to bother with it too much.Rather than being unhappy when we encounter them, it’s better to reduce our interactions and not bother with them if we don’t have to.Those who genuinely care about us can be treated like friends, but those who are fake towards us don’t even deserve a normal relationship.]]> 바카라 출목표 보는법；바카라사이트, 카지노；카지노사이트킴 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/dont-use-cold-violence-to-force-someone-to-break-up-with-you-914e83343cc5?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/914e83343cc5 Tue, 09 Jul 2024 07:06:02 GMT 2024-07-09T07:06:02.249Z
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A friend was chatting with me, talking about how they wanted to break up with their partner, but didn’t want to say it directly because of pride.To avoid this awkwardness, they used cold violence, ignoring, and indifference, almost to the point of disappearance. Their goal was to make their girlfriend take the initiative to break up with them when she couldn’t take it anymore.In their mind, if they said it themselves, it would be too humiliating, putting themselves in an unjust situation. If the girlfriend initiated the breakup, it would avoid an awkward situation, and she could slowly let go.Their cold violence was almost unbearable for any woman. Under the guise of considering the other person, they hid their own selfishness and ego, willing to sacrifice the other person’s feelings rather than facing the situation directly.When talking about love, her boyfriend was always very passionate, even when they had conflicts, the sacredness of their emotions remained, and the memories remained. Don’t let cold violence freeze the beauty.Their relationship was great, but one day, he stopped taking the initiative to find her, and only responded indifferently when she reached out. Emily sensed something was off and asked her boyfriend, but he didn’t say anything. Emily began to doubt herself, wondering what she did wrong, and tried to make amends, but nothing changed.After several weeks, Emily was exhausted. She initiated the breakup, and her boyfriend agreed, admitting he had fallen in love with someone else. He even said he was grateful it was Emily who initiated the breakup, so he wouldn’t feel too guilty.

Cold Violence is a Form of Selfishness

Men use cold violence to force women to break up with them. They seek a way to escape, to make up for their own mistakes, but they don’t realize that, for women, it’s another form of selfish torture.When faced with cold violence, women will deeply blame themselves, like a child being wrongly accused. They don’t know why they have to endure all this, but in reality, everyone deserves a serious ending.

Cold Violence is True Violence

When the man she likes treats her this way, she will feel depressed, often unable to sleep, and even lose interest in doing anything.It’s all about breaking up, why can’t men just say it directly?Don’t use cold violence to force someone to break up with you. Saying it directly may cause the other person pain, but if you choose cold violence, the other person will not only suffer from the breakup but also from your irresponsibility, disregard, and disrespect.

Cold Violence Has No Respect

Breaking up with cold violence is really despicable. This isn’t about considering the other person; it’s just self-deception, pretending to seek psychological comfort, and pretending to be noble.If you love someone, love them sincerely; if you don’t, then say it clearly. Sometimes, emotions aren’t afraid of distance, but of being dragged on forever.]]> 승무패；【토토사이트】스포츠토토 //batxh.com/@FredaReagan/when-a-husband-has-an-affair-heres-what-a-wife-should-do-to-come-out-on-top-436e523e135e?source=rss-0c47b110d6a0------2 //batxh.com/p/436e523e135e Mon, 08 Jul 2024 07:46:59 GMT 2024-07-08T07:46:59.285Z
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For a woman, once she steps into marriage, she naturally hopes that her marriage will be happy and fulfilling, and that she can grow old with her husband. But in marriage, there are always bound to be problems.The worst is when one partner betrays the other. For a woman, if she finds out her husband is having an affair, it’s like a bolt from the blue. She might be completely overwhelmed and distraught.So in marriage, if a woman finds out her husband is having an affair, how should she handle it? Should she cry, make a scene, and beg him to come back home? Or should she just walk away and get a divorce? How can a woman make sure she doesn’t get the short end of the stick?Let’s say there’s a woman named Sarah. She’s always been a bright and beautiful girl, both in school and at work. Naturally, she has a lot of admirers and never lacks suitors.Even though Sarah is beautiful, she’s not frivolous. Out of all the suitors, she prioritizes character and ability. She ultimately chooses to marry her coworker, John.John isn’t particularly handsome, but he’s very capable at work and always treats Sarah with kindness and tenderness. He also listens to her and follows her lead. This is why Sarah chose him.Sarah and John dated for less than two years before they got married. Soon after they got married, Sarah got pregnant. After their baby was born, Sarah had to quit her job to stay home and take care of the baby because there was no one else to help.At first, Sarah and John’s life was very fulfilling. John was a capable person and his career was going from strength to strength.After Sarah quit her job, John’s position kept getting promoted, and his income grew. Maybe it was because of his rising position, but he seemed to have more charisma than before.On the other hand, Sarah stayed home taking care of the baby and the family. She rarely took care of herself, and her weight went up after she gave birth. She gradually went from the bright and beautiful woman she used to be to a typical, plump housewife.Unknowingly, the way the two of them got along slowly changed. John went from listening to Sarah to making all the decisions in the household.Sarah didn’t mind at first, but she never expected that her husband would have an affair.At first, John would frequently use work as an excuse to stay out late and come home very late. Later, he even forgot their wedding anniversary, and when he got home, he was cold and distant towards Sarah.Maybe it’s because of a woman’s unique sensitivity, but Sarah quickly noticed something was wrong with John. She secretly looked at his phone and confirmed that he was really doing something wrong.After finding out about John’s affair, Sarah didn’t cry or make a scene, nor did she confront her husband. Instead, she started quietly planning. She hired someone to take photos of John on his dates and gather evidence of his infidelity.At the same time, Sarah signed up for a fitness class and started losing weight. She also sent her child to kindergarten and found a new job.Sarah also started dressing up again. After finding a new job, she did better and better. She became financially independent, and her life became more and more fulfilling. She was once again the confident and radiant woman she used to be.Unbeknownst to her, Sarah started to transform. Seeing her transformation, John was worried about losing her and took the initiative to cut off contact with his mistress. He started circling back around Sarah.John realized that the wife he spent every day with was actually so amazing. If he left her now, it would be like he was blind.At this point, whether Sarah decided to get a divorce or forgive John, she wouldn’t be at a loss. She would have more options.

When a marriage encounters a man’s infidelity, in my opinion, if a woman wants to come out on top, she needs to transform herself, rebuild her own charm, and maintain financial independence.

She also needs to keep evidence of the man’s betrayal, be patient, and wait for the best time to choose divorce or a confrontation.When a woman discovers that her husband has betrayed her, the most important thing is to take control. She needs to have more options, rather than being forced to choose between divorce or forgiveness. Whether she leaves or stays, it should be her decision.To achieve this, to make sure she doesn’t get the short end of the stick, a woman must do the following:

Take control of her marriage.

The reason a man betrays his wife is often because he’s looking for something new. So, a woman needs to rebuild her own charm so that the man falls in love with her again. This way, she can naturally take control of the marriage.

Not only does she need to take back control of the marriage, but she also needs to take control of her finances.

This way, whether she divorces or not, whether the man can win her back or not, the woman won’t be at a disadvantage. She can still live a fulfilling life on her own and have a great life.]]>